Okay, if you have been under a rock then you know you TLC is,correct. Well, one of the members,Chilli, has her own dating show the airs on VH1. It's a pretty decent show, of course those dating shows can be kinda, well stupid. But, this one has me shacking my head, and thinking what the hell is she doing?? Well, she has a list that is, even for me, too extreme. The dude has to be damn near perfect to be with her. Well, it's not the list that has me buggin, it's the preference that has my eyebrow raised.Well, on this season she has only dated white men. And yes by all means date other races besides your own. When you date outside of your race you can decided what type of person you really want in life. But, why only white men? She hasn't dated any Asians, blacks, or any other races. They have all been European, and one Spanish gentleman, but I think he was from Spain, but I could be wrong. The reason why I have such a problem with this is; because, their our many eligible bachelors that our in the world, not just Black men, Asian men, or White men. But, I really feel she has given up on being with a black men, and thinks okay I'll just give the opposite race a try. It's kinda like a women that has bad track record with men, so she decides to become a lesbian. Can you see the stigma behind this? I honestly feel there is someone for every one but some people,including men and women, are looking for that one that is the perfect one. But, I hate to destroy someone's fantasy about their soul mate, but no one is perfect and every one has flaws. When God, place the one for you in front of you, it wont be what you expected, but exactly who you need in life. And, when we start thinking with both the heart and the head and let the higher power lead you to the right one. Well people I'm tired of complaining about Chilli, so I'll end it with this. Let love be seen with the heart and not with the eyes.
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